有时候分不清到底是我善于把关系搞砸，还是表达不满的时候对方不能理解。 为什么你可以生气我不能
自觉心理承受、抗压能力差
自觉是个能量场很低的人，过度depressive 了
今天状态太差了，红成猪头
已经远去的人没有必要再费力去追了。你若盛开，花香自来。
小红书shopping现状：买四件退三件，留下的一件领口变形☺
要早日完成主线任务。
意向部门一连招了三个新人，而简历到现在还没更新想打自己一耳光！
成功挑出扎进手掌的刺，为自己感到骄傲了你真行
妈妈的快乐可以简单到女儿送的一束花。 快乐的不是花，是被惦念。
昨天下午四点多喝了奶茶以为自己一夜没睡着，但梦境的画面很真实，真实到以为自己没睡着。 这么多年第一次梦见外公，外公样子没变皮肤看起来更光滑了些，红通通的脸在提示仍然酒醉公一枚，他在家门口等着每一个小家庭到达的时候颁上一叠厚厚的红包，笑眯眯的。瑞典飞新加坡的飞机上，Erik和几名老外在聊天，欧洲的十小时时差还没来得及倒晕乎乎的Erik就得赶回亚洲时区，蓝衬衫的老外在吐槽他们开始了因为节假日周末调班的unbelievable 政策。
万恶的消费主义？ 其实还蛮快乐的
Aphasia
转嘟
不要相信别人告诉你的，“什么年龄就该做什么年龄的事”，这句话就是放屁，可悲的人被洗脑后用来打击别人而后安慰自己的。并且这句话背后还有更恶心的事实，那些事是什么呢，无非是服从老师，服从父母，服从领导，买房结婚生娃，而这些事实都较多建立在一个男权社会之上，服从父母较多的是服从父亲，他脾气最大最难抗衡；服从老师，更多的是男老师，教导主任，他们武力值更强；服从领导，更多是男领导，这是必然的，因为中国的领导主要都是男的，不管商业环境还是共产党里。但人生不一定要这样，可以反抗的，反抗不一定很惨，甚至会极好，作为一个男性，我感受过类似的压迫(当然不如女性受到得无形压迫多），工作数十年来一直在和这种权力斗争，肯定有代价，但也很自由，工作得到了尊重，财务收入上也不错，朋友也不少。我无意炫耀自己的情况，只是想说，你完全可以按照自己的想法去活着，主宰自己的命运，也可以过得很健康很OK。我就是一个平凡的例子。
1.What is your idea of perfect happiness?
Stay away from bad people and bad things, no worries for money, several friends around, mutual understanding between family members.
2.What is your greatest fear?
Unappreciated and isolated.
3.What is the trait you most deplore in yourself?
Inexpressive，little sense of boundaries, hard to make up my mind and carry out something.
4.What is the trait you most deplore in others?
Selfish people with no capacity for empathy, Cranky self-righteous people.
5.Which living person do you most admire?
Lei Jun.
6.What is your greatest extravagance?
Study and travel abroad.
7.What is your current state of mind?
Struggling, half-clear direction.
8.What do you consider the most overrated virtue?
Honest.
9.On what occasion do you lie?
When I am feeling insecure.
10.What do you most dislike about your appearance?
Look strong.
11.Which living person do you most despise?
Noone.
12.What is the quality you most like in a man?
Good at planning and execution, family-oriented, love life, considerate and dedicated, good at motivation and aggressive，generous and tenderness，keen on sport, modest.
13.What is the quality you most like in a woman?
Good at planning and execution, aggressive，pretty and sophisticated, easy-going and generous, personal independence，logical thinking and expression ability.
14.Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
You're right.
15.What or who is the greatest love of your life?
None.
16.When and where were you happiest?
Lost memory.
17.Which talent would you most like to have?
Could always pick up the slack during a conversation, express opinions thoughtfully and generously.
18.If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
No marriage.
19.What do you consider your greatest achievement?
No achievement up to now.
20.If you were to die and come back as a person or a thing, what would it be?
A prince born in Rome.
21.Where would you most like to live?
Australia.
22.What is your most treasured possession?
Iphone 14 promax.
23.What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery?
Superficial pain in the skin.
24.What is your favorite occupation?
Landlords who collect rent.
25.What is your most marked characteristic?
White skin.
26.What do you most value in your friends?
Empathy and sharing.
27.Who are your favorite writers?
三毛
28.Who is your hero of fiction?
Sherlock Holmes.
29.Which historical figure do you most identify with?
Zedong Mao
30.Who are your heroes in real life?
Albert
31.What are your favorite names?
Aphasia
32.What is it that you most dislike?
Not living the way I want to.
33.What is your greatest regret?
Rush to get into marriage.
34.How would you like to die?
Take pills and drink.
35.What is your motto?
Wake up.
加入于 2025年01月
